Tuesday, November 18, 2008

Didn't take long

Well, I knew that I was looking at a bad time with GR, but I didn't think it would be so fast. Yesterday after noon around 4:30 pm, we were visiting just she and I , (Bruce wasn't home yet )about different things, and we were having a good time I thought, when out of a conversation she started in with not wanting to be here, why did she have to be here, blaming her sisters, and Bruce , she started crying , well I must say I was proud of my self, I let her talk and didn't get upset and listened to her for a bit , and interjected when necessary. We made it through it and it was over by the time Bruce got home at 5:15pm. She struggles here, as she feels lonely in the crowd, she complained that the kids don't talk to her, which isn't true but they don't engage in long conversations with her because she is hard to talk too, any way I am expecting more of these break downs as the days and weeks go bye. And for our children who are coming home, just be prepared, it isn't any thing your doing or will do, but just know that you may see a few of these times while your here. She really can't control her self and I am seeing more of these flare ups now, closer together then I was when she first came here. Hopefully she will have a good day today, but I never know..... Love ya

2 comments:

Undaunted said...

Hang in there lady. :) All you can do is be as prepared as possible and pray for the pactience that you need. We love you and will do all we can to help. Keep up the good work. Love you Stacie

Matt's Blog said...

Im ready for her. Lets just buy her a plane ticket out her to Hawaii and i will take of her. Your doing well mom. Your a strong lady. Love you
~Your Favorite Son